What is meant when Christians say we have a God-Shaped Hole in our Hearts?
Contrary to the assumptions of many atheists, Christians such as myself do read atheist literature. Quite a bit of it actually. After all, it is pretty difficult to respond to challenges to truth when you don't know the details of the challenges.
Presently, I am reading a paper by Guy Kahane, a Professor of Philosophy at Oxford University, which appears to be a Chapter of a forthcoming book which will be entitled Does God Matter? Essays on the Axiological Implications of Theism. The paper, a draft (whether it is a first draft or the final draft isn't clear) of what will be Chapter 3 of the book, is entitled, “If There is a Hole it is Not God-Shaped,” which represents Professor Kahane’s efforts to explain that if people have a "hole in their heart" (a feeling of emptiness), it is not because it is lacking God.
Of course, Professor Kahane is referencing the short-hand claim by Christians that everyone has a God-shaped hole in their heart which can only be filled by God. The idea that humanity has such a hole has it's genesis in the Biblical teachings. One could go back to Genesis itself and see that man was created by God to be in relationship with Him, but through disobedience of man to God's perfect ways, a breach was created that separated man from God. As so aptly stated by Mike Leake at Lifeway.com,
This idea of God being an essential part of our lives such that our lives will be feel less than complete until God becomes part of our lives was quite probably most clearly stated by Augustine at the beginning of his Confessions where he stated the memorable truth, "You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it rests in you."
Dr. Kahane claims that he seeks to address the "God-shaped hole" analogy in his paper, but really doesn't. Instead, he redefines the hole to be one in which we struggle with the uncaring nature of a universe that is indifferent to our existence. As he puts it,
Do you notice what he has done? He has changed the playing field. I understand why he does it: he is a good atheist who is compelled to disbelieve the cry of his own heart due to his atheistic leanings. (He notes, "I have to confess that, at least in some moments, I feel something like this lack, even though in nothing approaching the dramatic form that Russell reports.") Beginning with a purely physical world view, he has to redefine what the Christian is addressing and he does so by arguing that what the Christian is claiming is that he/she is not comfortable (or perhaps is even terrified by the idea that the universe is "pitiless indifference." But that is not what the Christian claims.
You see, the idea that there is a God-shaped hole says that there is something about humanity that is incomplete until God enters the person's life. If I can analogize, it is like losing your true love -- a husband or wife who has been with you for so many years that you forget what life was like before they arrived. To borrow an overused phrase from the late 1990s, the husband or wife "completes" you. Then, in the blink of an eye, the person is gone - passed away. You walk around wondering where part of you has gone. You wake up in the morning and find the bed empty. You go through your life wanting to talk to him/her. Life goes on, but it somehow seems stale and hollow. Over time you move on, but the loss of that relationship never goes away. You find you want to call her/him, touch her/him, and just spend time in his/her presence -- but you can't. That's what it means to have a hole in your heart.
In the case of Christianity, our true relationship with God crumbled with the Fall in Genesis 3. Ever since then, like alcoholics seeing to fill our lives with momentary pleasures, we have sought to fill the hole with other things. Money, power, sex, drugs, music, food, gossiping; all of these things and many, many more have been used by humanity to try to fill the hole in our hearts. But all of these things fall short. All of these things are temporary and we instinctively know that one day they will not be there. Only God can fill that hole because we were made for relationship with God and it is God and only God who can complete us.
As a result of his redefinition (or perhaps lack of understanding) of the meaning of "God-shaped hole", I am not particularly impressed with what I read in his paper. The paper doesn’t really address the issue that he promises to address. Rather, he spins a yarn that a world with God is not necessarily better (and may be that it is not even likely better) than a world without God which is not the question. But there was one part of his paper that I found fascinating: the opening paragraphs. In it, he sets forth two quotes by Bertrand Russell, an icon of atheism. Apparently, in a few weak moments in communication with his loved ones, he shares his own deepest feelings that something is missing from his life.
Of course, Professor Kahane is referencing the short-hand claim by Christians that everyone has a God-shaped hole in their heart which can only be filled by God. The idea that humanity has such a hole has it's genesis in the Biblical teachings. One could go back to Genesis itself and see that man was created by God to be in relationship with Him, but through disobedience of man to God's perfect ways, a breach was created that separated man from God. As so aptly stated by Mike Leake at Lifeway.com,
God made people for relationship: relationship with Himself and with the rest of creation. Yet as you are painfully aware, you and I do not live in a community that perfectly reflects and brings glory to God. Our society, our families, our marriages, and even our churches are often devastated by shattered community. The first effect of the fall was a broken relationship between God and man, followed closely by fractured relationship between the first couple.The description of this falling out does not end with Genesis. Much of the rest of Scripture describes God's efforts to restore our broken relationship with Him -- a task accomplished primarily through the sacrifice of his Son to pay the price of sin. But most importantly for purposes of this post, we were created for this relationship. "[For] in Him we live and move and have our being...." Acts 17:28 (NIV). Here Paul, adopting a phrase from a Cretan philosopher (as Paul often did -- becoming all things to all men that through him some might be saved), asserts that God is the who gives us life, energy and meaning.
God created us for relationship, but our sin has rendered us perpetual relationship breakers.
This idea of God being an essential part of our lives such that our lives will be feel less than complete until God becomes part of our lives was quite probably most clearly stated by Augustine at the beginning of his Confessions where he stated the memorable truth, "You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it rests in you."
Dr. Kahane claims that he seeks to address the "God-shaped hole" analogy in his paper, but really doesn't. Instead, he redefines the hole to be one in which we struggle with the uncaring nature of a universe that is indifferent to our existence. As he puts it,
We could understand the metaphor of the ‘God-shaped hole’ in phenomenological terms, as merely a claim about the psychology of some people. I am not interested here in this psychological question. I’m interested in this metaphor as a substantive claim: the view that something essential is missing in the naturalist universe we inhabit, a universe that Samuel Beckett described as a ‘world of desolation’,6 and which is governed, as Richard Dawkins put it, by ‘nothing but pitiless indifference’.7
Do you notice what he has done? He has changed the playing field. I understand why he does it: he is a good atheist who is compelled to disbelieve the cry of his own heart due to his atheistic leanings. (He notes, "I have to confess that, at least in some moments, I feel something like this lack, even though in nothing approaching the dramatic form that Russell reports.") Beginning with a purely physical world view, he has to redefine what the Christian is addressing and he does so by arguing that what the Christian is claiming is that he/she is not comfortable (or perhaps is even terrified by the idea that the universe is "pitiless indifference." But that is not what the Christian claims.
You see, the idea that there is a God-shaped hole says that there is something about humanity that is incomplete until God enters the person's life. If I can analogize, it is like losing your true love -- a husband or wife who has been with you for so many years that you forget what life was like before they arrived. To borrow an overused phrase from the late 1990s, the husband or wife "completes" you. Then, in the blink of an eye, the person is gone - passed away. You walk around wondering where part of you has gone. You wake up in the morning and find the bed empty. You go through your life wanting to talk to him/her. Life goes on, but it somehow seems stale and hollow. Over time you move on, but the loss of that relationship never goes away. You find you want to call her/him, touch her/him, and just spend time in his/her presence -- but you can't. That's what it means to have a hole in your heart.
In the case of Christianity, our true relationship with God crumbled with the Fall in Genesis 3. Ever since then, like alcoholics seeing to fill our lives with momentary pleasures, we have sought to fill the hole with other things. Money, power, sex, drugs, music, food, gossiping; all of these things and many, many more have been used by humanity to try to fill the hole in our hearts. But all of these things fall short. All of these things are temporary and we instinctively know that one day they will not be there. Only God can fill that hole because we were made for relationship with God and it is God and only God who can complete us.
As a result of his redefinition (or perhaps lack of understanding) of the meaning of "God-shaped hole", I am not particularly impressed with what I read in his paper. The paper doesn’t really address the issue that he promises to address. Rather, he spins a yarn that a world with God is not necessarily better (and may be that it is not even likely better) than a world without God which is not the question. But there was one part of his paper that I found fascinating: the opening paragraphs. In it, he sets forth two quotes by Bertrand Russell, an icon of atheism. Apparently, in a few weak moments in communication with his loved ones, he shares his own deepest feelings that something is missing from his life.
In a letter that Bertrand Russell wrote to his then lover Colette O’Neil, he confesses thatThat Russell should feel this way is unsurprising. After all, even atheists are made to have a relationship with God -- whether they accept that or not.
The centre of me is always and eternally a terrible pain—a curious wild pain—a searching for something beyond what the world contains, something transfigured and infinite—the beatific vision—God…1In an earlier letter to Lady Ottolline Morrell, another lover who was a religious believer, Russell wrote,
Turbulent, restless, inwardly raging—I shall always be—hungry for your God and blaspheming him. I could pour forth a flood of worship—the longing for religion is at times almost unbearably strong.2
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